Ladies, take your boyfriend/husband or SO and ask him to lie down on the bed, naked and just relax and breath in deeply, in through the nose, out through the mouth. Ask him to place his hands on the bedposts and follow up by saying that he's not to move his hands from their positions, let's see if he can obey a simple request. Sit beside him in lingerie or fully clothed, your choice...and bend towards his loins and gently kiss his cock at the tip and base, linger and repeat... gently now.
Watch his face, observe but don't do any more than kiss his cock in random places up his shaft. If he moves forward and/or releases his hands from the bed, then stand up or sit up and place your hand on his chest, urging him back down. Smile. You're enjoying this more than you're meant to in your current role after all.
Take hold of a silk scarf from the bedpost, tied there earlier in the day or from a bedside drawer. Loop the scarf around his lower wrists and thread through the gaps in the bedposts and tie another loop around his hands behind the bed. Thread the silk scarf through the loops. Pull, cinch and tie a double knot between the two parallel lengths.
Spreading his hitched legs apart and taking another silk scarf from your secret place, crawl between his legs and drape the satin over his groin, and let it flow and weave between his balls, around his sac, let it glide around his penis and then take it firmly in your hand.
Give him a slow, prolonged pump, repeat several times, increase the speed and increase the height of the peak of each upward stoke, increase the depth of each stroke, cupping his balls with the silk every few pumps. If you feel he's getting too worked up, stop and place your hand over his glans and your finger over his urethra (peehole) and then squeeze your fist. This should keep his ejaculation at bay a little. Play with this technique until you're satisfied he's working up enough of an orgasm to make him realise that it's worth the wait.
When you are good and ready (and onnnnly when YOU are good and ready - he needs to realise that you are in control and doesn't have a say - If you feel he really shouldn't have a say or any verbal reaction, then Gag the fucker. ;) )... as I was saying, when you are ready, take his aching cock between your lips, the silk scarf wrapped around his shaft, the soft trails cascading over his ballsac, cup them underneath and stroke it as you glide his length inside your warm maw....
Lick, suck, twist and lather the silk all around his funpack and when you decide... let the guy have all barrels. caressing his scrotum as his thrusts upwards his sticky white love piss all over.... well. either you, your bed or his own face....
(Errrrr....not that this has ever happened to me or anything....)
Grab the Tissues, mop up, ask for feedback, take notes, order Pizza, plunge into a new Dvd boxset, book a holiday, adopt a chimp, annnnd basically that's how you turn a frown upside